Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Back to mourning. :-(
Wanted to update from afar to let ya'll know that we lost our baby on Christmas Eve.
We are all doing okay, considering, but would appreciate any and all prayers as we accept God's will in our lives.
Monday, December 17, 2007
Mourning and Rejoicing!
My mom had made it very clear that she more than understood if we couldn't make it to the funeral, but not going was just not an option. When I told most people that I was going to the funeral of my mom's cousin they usually had the reaction of relief...like, "Oh, good...I'm glad it wasn't anyone close"...probably most people don't even know their mom's cousins that well. My family, however, is different. Very different. My grandmother had 11 brothers and sisters. I was raised knowing 9 of them (one died in infancy, one before I was born). Some of my mother's cousins are my age. Anyway, we are all close. Just the way an extended family should be. Ruthie was a staple to our family. She attended every concert, every game, every family function, every Sunday "dinner". She was a wonderful, lovely, loving, joyful woman who I am so blessed to have had in my family. This Christmas will be very hard without her. She leaves a wonderful husband behind who has become so much a part of our family.
On the lighter side of things....getting to announce that we are expecting another addition to our little family during this sad time seems to make things a little brighter! In August (or July if things go the way they have in the past) we will be welcoming another little Jones into this house. This Christmas season seems to have a bittersweet feeling to it this year...mourning our loss, but rejoicing the blessing of this new life! Rejoice, Rejoice, Emmanuel!
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
A Joke For Ya'll!
A: A "Texas-sized" snowstorm!
We got 10 inches of snow over the weekend and it's been snowing all day. They expect up to a foot of snow before it's all over. Gotta love "lake-effect" snow.
Which brings me to my next topic. Driving in snow!
I've been away from this stuff for 7 1/2 years while living in Texas. This morning it was snowing. I checked the forecast and it said we were supposed to get 2-4 inches of accumulation. We have our Catholic homeschool coop every 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month so it was on for today. I almost didn't go. Something inside of me said, "Stay! Stay home! Clean your home while you stay home!". But, I kinda figured that if I was never going to go out while it was snowing I may not ever get out all winter. So...we went. Bad call! I stayed through lunch and then decided to head. Pulling the little ballerina out of her class was hard, but it was worth it. The roads were horrendous. I was white knuckling it all the time, and I don't think the kids said a single word...if they did, I sure didn't hear them. At one point I remember praying that the light at the bottom of the hill would stay green because I was going through either way. Whoever planned a city in the north on a hillside was obviously delusional. The interstate looked like our alley, I could barely make out tire tracks and the bridge was worse. At one point I remember looking up and noticing that we were at the top of the bridge. I had no clue where we were, I was just following the little track in front of me in hopes that it would bring me to Wisconsin.
Although it was scary and I don't want to do that ever again, I'm sooooo glad we left when we did because shortly after that they closed the bridges and a lot of my friends got stuck in Duluth. I'm so thankful for being home tonight, and extra thankful because the concert Brett was supposed to be in tonight was cancelled. Yahoo!!!!!
This snow stuff is crazy! I just can't believe how much we're getting. The locals claim that we haven't had this much in a long time, but I remember some locals claiming that mid-80s was rare for October in Texas yet that seemed to happen every year we were there. :-)
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Motivation
For instance...my guest bed is piled with clean clothes. I have been taking the clothes directly out of the dryer and throwing them onto the bed. Why am I doing this you ask? Well, my laundry basket is full of clean towels that need to be put away? Why aren't they put away? Well, because I need to reorganize/rethink that whole cupboard in the bathroom and I'm not sure I could stuff all the towels in there anyway. Why do I only have one laundry basket? Well, one is being used as "temporary" (read months) storage for clothes that need to be put in storage bins that are currently in the garage. The other is being used for...uhmm...I have no idea. I recently pulled a doll, Magic treehouse book, new package of wipes, and a paint shirt out of the bottom. Oh yeah, and the basket that I was so diligiently keeping all the loner socks that come out of my wash. I have about five piles of them and they never seem to find one another...poor loner socks. So, back to the pile on the bed. I have been known at times to stand down in my cold basement and fold clothes, but then I end up with piles of folded clothes on different pieces of furniture because I can't get them all upstairs without access to a basket.
I think tonight I've been motivated. Not too long ago I heard a yell from a new 6 year old boy who just hopped out of the shower, "Mom! I don't have any underwear in my drawer". I was quite proud that instead of running one pair up to him, I actually grabbed one of the many piles of Aidan-undies and took the whole pile to him.
I was just in my kitchen...unloaded the dishwasher, loaded 'er back up again and had to start it again. But, the clincher is what I saw on the white board.....
Hahahaha!!! I just saw that this post was never posted...too funny! A post entitled "motivation" (and dated back in November) and apparently the lack of motivation was so huge that I didn't have the motivation to finish and post the post! Ah well.
Happy Birthday Aidan!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
The Little Blue Easter Dress
Happy Birthday to me!
Weird device
I was joking around with Aidan about needing to be shoveled out if it kept up. Poor kid took me halfway seriously. I forget that he has no concept of snow...how much is a lot (I'm sure he'll understand better after this winter) and how much is just a "dusting". The accumulation had moved from a "dusting" to a "coating" rather quickly, but still nothing too bad so we loaded up into the car for the ride home. The kids could not figure out how in the world we were going to be able to see out the car windows. "Mommy, what are we going to do" "How are we going to get home if we can't see out of the windows?" Then I brought it out. By "it" I mean that handy, dandy thing we call a snow scraper!
I impressed the kids by buzzing around the car "brushing" the snow off. I could hear "oh! wow!" from inside the car and got such a kick out of their astonishment. After the car was thoroughly cleaned off I hopped back in and heard, "I've seen that thing back there for years...I've just never known what it was for...what a handy little device that is...wow, that worked great!" I couldn't break it to them that I could have just as easily used my gloved hand and had the same outcome...no, I just couldn't do that to them.
Snow!
This picture was taken almost a week ago and that snow has been long gone, but it is actually snowing as I type. Yay! The kids are very excited for Gianna to wake up from her nap so we can all go out and play in the snow. Hmmm....do popcorn and hot chocolate count as dinner? It just feels like one of those nights. Maybe I can get by with it if I stick in "It's a Charlie Brown Thanksgiving!" Yes, yes...I think that will do.
Friday, November 16, 2007
Opening
#1 You can't call "huntn'" "hunting". If you do, it would be very clear that you've never been.
#2 I find it ironic that I just told my husband to "look out for deer". Well, duh! I of course was referring to the kind that could jump out at him while he was driving to his huntn' grounds. Baggn' (not "bagging") a deer that way is just not cool...especially on opening day of rifle huntn'.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Big Brother Duties
God Bless,
Meghan
Monday, November 12, 2007
Fun Weekend!
Aidan and Emma had a blast playing in the little bit of snow that stayed on the ground. I think Aidan would have stayed outside all day, but he was running out of dry mittens and he soon discovered that wet mittens meant cold hands. Gianna went outside for a little while, but didn't' last too long.
The snow was beautiful and brought back so many memories of growing up in the north. The feeling of looking outside and seeing that white stuff falling is truly unforgettable. Now, come April and the stuff is still on the ground I might not be so "poetic" about it. I might be, but it may not be "publishable".
Monday, November 5, 2007
A little late...
We participated in an All Saints Day party with the Catholic homeschool group we belong to. The kids were encouraged to dress up as their favorite saint and give a short presentation on the saint. Aidan gave an impromptu presentation on St.Patrick and explained how St.Patrick described the Trinity using a clover. Emma also gave an impromptu presentation (both of them told me they didn't want to do one so we didn't work anything up, but when they saw the other kids going up they wanted to as well) and you can tell from the picture she wasn't quite as informed on her saint as I thought she was.
American History meets Catholicism
Adapting.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Happy Halloween!
Another super-cute snowman....or, ahem...snowgirl.
Now if that face doesn't say it all.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
On Your Mark...
Unfortunately many of our leaves have been blown away due to many windy and rainy days, but that didn't discourage them from trying.
Field Trip
Our first stop was the Pilot House from the ship the Frontenac. The ship was shipwrecked in 1979 due to snow and hazardous conditions. The kids had a great time taking turns being the "captain" (well, two liked taking turns...Miss Gigi mainly liked yelling at the other two for infringing upon her space) and checking out all the equipment they used for operating the ship.

This is Aidan pretending to be the captain as he's discovering the ship is about to hit the reef that ended her career.
"Full steam ahead me hearties!"
Exploring the kitchen in the "Assistant Keeper's House"
Trying to prove to Brett that although I don't have much to show for it I do know the general motion one needs to make in order to make a sewing machine work.
The Two Harbors Lighthouse is the oldest continuously operating lighthouse on the North Shore of Lake Superior. The first lighting was in 1892.
Are we doing a good job pretending we aren't freezing? Do you spy the ship coming in behind us (it actually didn't stop at Two Harbors, but continued on to Duluth and was leaving port this morning as we were crossing the bridge coming back from running errands...cool, huh?)
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
You be the Judge
We were supposed to go recruiting with Brett (well, we wouldn't actually go to the recruiting part), but now I'm not so sure. Is this a case of the stomach bug, or a case of a little girl who has been begging to watch a movie this week (we try to not do tv during the week, just the weekend) and knows that when one is sick in this household one gets to lay on the couch and watch pretty much however many movies one desires. Hmmmmm.....what to do, what to do.
Monday, October 22, 2007
Finally
So, he came this afternoon, spent about 15-20 minutes and here's the deal:
-washer and dryer are being replaced
-freezer is being replaced
-water heater is being replaced
-tile floor and footings/trim is being replaced
-4' up of drywall is being replaced
-$ to pay people to move our stuff out of the way while floor/walls are being done
Whew! A blessing in disguise perhaps. We've had our washer and dryer for 7 years (which is ancient in this day and age where things are made to be broken and thrown away) and our water heater is 12 years old. I'm very excited to get to go appliance shopping, but it was SOOOOOOOOOO not worth it.
Now, onto taking steps to make sure that this doesn't happen again next spring.
Thursday, October 18, 2007
"You Are Not in Charge"
Imagine my shock and horror when I discovered, in light of recent events (oh yes, there's more...), that perhaps God is trying to tell me the same thing: YOU ARE NOT IN CHARGE! I AM!
So, after several days of wallowing in my self-pity and trying to figure out "why?" I have resolved to letting go and letting HIM be in charge.
Monday, October 15, 2007
When it rains...
Our whole basement was being flooded with city sewer water right before our eyes and there wasn't a thing we could do about it. Well, there was one thing we could do. I jumped from furniture to furniture trying to salvage anything I could. Brett took a tour of the basement with the aid of our computer chair and wheeled himself from room to room saving all that he could and taking pictures for documentation purposes.
We discovered that the mystery sound was the toilet lid going up and slamming shut while the "water" (I use that term lightly) gushed (as in geyser) out of it. Lovely!
The basement is technically "clean". We are in the midst of dealing with our insurance company ('nough said) and getting quotes from different "experts".
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Scouting!
(photo credit: Aidan)
Applefest 2007
Friday, October 5, 2007
Slip, slidin' away!
Sioux City
The kids loved seeing Aunt Jocie's room at school.
Super Weirdo!
(the super weirdo himself and the bear he made while visiting in Sioux City)
Chess anybody?
He had his first "Blue Knights" meeting this past Monday and seemed to really enjoy himself. I asked him if he met a lot of nice boys.
"Oh, yes. All of the boys were really nice. But, one time the teacher had to leave the room to ask somebody a question and he said that we could all talk for a little while until he came back to the room. Well, I was really excited to see if anybody else was interested in Chess, but all the other boys just started yelling and screaming and making a bunch of noise...nobody was even intrested in having a conversation with me." Lol! I can just see him, "Uhmmm...yes, excuse me gentlemen...is any one else here fascinated with the game of Chess?"
Five year olds!
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Go Green and Be Safe!
#1 Crunch, crunch:
I was ecstatic last night when I had to run back to the baby area of Target to grab a different size of long underwear for Gigi, and discovered the best surprise ever! Wanna guess? Babycare diapers! I have yet to discuss my diaper obsession here so you may not yet be able to fully understand why this made me so happy. Over time you will get it, but for now I'll just have to say...I love 'em...not all of them, though...I love cloth and the kind that don't take 500 years to decompose and when they finally do decompose let out a toxic gas..lovely, huh. These diapers (did I mention they were at Target...yay!) are 100% biodegradable, and are the perfect solution for this mommy who has yet to find a good cloth diaper that works overnight. They are also a great solution for those disposable users who want a great diaper (it works really well...and overnight is a huge test), but want to be a little more earth savvy!
#2 Car seat safety:
Since moving up to the north I have been doing some research on winter and car seat safety. Did you know that you are not supposed to put your bundle in his/her car seat while bundled up in his/her winter finest? That's right. It's too bulky, creates too much slack and is extremely dangerous! Nothing thicker than a polar fleece jacket/pullover (which they make for 0 degree weather) is to go between the car seat straps and your kiddo! So...be safe and buy fleece!
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Say what?
We were nearing the end of the game and apparently Aidan felt that he was stuck (although he was beating me) and exclaimed, "CRAP!"
(gasp!)
Knowing that I must have heard that wrong since we are a household that does not use the words "butt", "hate", "stupid", "shut-up", and other such words that are unsuitable for little mouths to utter, I asked Aidan to clarify, "CRAP!" he said as clear as day. "CRAP!" Emma repeated giggling because she could tell that Brett and I were absolutely floored and finding it difficult to remain composed.
"Uh...Aidan...we do not use that word in our house, okay?"
"Oh, okay!"
I have no idea where he learned such a word, and I have only one thing to say about this little incident....CRAP!